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Wednesday, August 24, 2005
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat
a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't
stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a
year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you
can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you
any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain
boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you
are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll
cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat
you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is a two
way street.
You need time to heal between relationships ... there is nothing cute
about baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you ... a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals ... look for someone complimentary ...
not supplementary.
Dating is fun ... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him
miss you sometimes ... when a man always knows where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need.* Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know) ... You'll make
someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget
them.
Posted at Wednesday, August 24, 2005 by mysticsoul
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unbelievably albert einstein's...
This is written by Albert Einstein. Read it carefully and try to reflect.
Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to
recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many
beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by
our own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will find
rewarding happinesss not with man you love but the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to
allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your
being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means
that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him
to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is
also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that
keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare you away your strength and weaken your
faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself
grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in loving someone from a
distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can
sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all
survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and
happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and
beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that
person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually
consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to
realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the
endour efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how
to accept the evrdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to
someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible
and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember
that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming
tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in love. Cry if you
have to, but make it sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that
the
past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way
back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and
last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a
miracle. The other is though everything is a miracle.
Posted at Wednesday, August 24, 2005 by mysticsoul
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Tuesday, August 23, 2005
list'ning my time away....
we don't have a lot of calls right now coz the newbies are nesting for the past few days now. i found this cool website where i can listen to some opm music. it doesn't have a lot there but the selections are nice. kaya lang kaka-senti e. basta....
i'm getting impatient with my pregnancy. i just want the baby to come out. we're all excited to see him or her. i still don't know the gender but i have a feeling it's a girl and some people say the same thing. quite disappointing for my husband though, but he's still excited about it. even chloe wants the baby out of my tummy. feeling ko ang tagal2. just 3 more months, and we'll be celebrating Christmas with our bundle of joy. we can't help but anticipate what the baby will look like. chloe wants her sibling to look like her daw especially if it's a girl. beck's so excited as well. ngayon pa nga lang kinukulit na nya yung baby sa loob ng tyan ko e. lagi nyang hinihimas kaya ayun, galaw naman ng galaw. it feels really weird, but nice coz i know the baby's responding. i'm sure he or she will recognize our touch. can't hardly wait.
haay...i'm listening to "tuwing umuulan at kapiling ka", and it still calms me. funny, but memories come rushing back. january of 2004, taal lake... i had hoped that day would never end. but i had to go back to reality. and here we are now, finally decided to part ways without attempting any contact. perhaps it's really over for him, but is it really for me? this is a mistake. i'm really sorry. i'll try harder...God help me...
Posted at Tuesday, August 23, 2005 by mysticsoul
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Wednesday, August 17, 2005
hi there...it's just now that i got the chance to visit my blogsite. we're having lesser calls nowadays and i honestly don't know what to feel about that. i'm partly happy coz i can get to surf a lot, eat, or sleep but another part of me feels bored coz i feel like if i have nothing better to do here then i better sleep at home. basta...dami pang epal dito sa cendant. power-tripper mga tao dito e. ok lang. i really don't mind as long as i don't see them often on the floor.
sa wakas i got over my nausea. i can eat whatever i want now without having to throw it up. weird thing is, i'm still thin. i'll be on my 6th month at the end of august. can't wait to deliver the baby. my tummy's really getting heavy and i feel like an old lady when commuting. barumbado pa minsan yung masasakyan ko so goodluck to me di ba? pero i must admit i'm contented with what i have now. we have dreams of migrating to canada or new zealand in the future. hopefully we can do something to make it happen. basta. we'll work on it.
weird talaga...i'm still wondering how my soulmate is doing... the last time we talked (thru writing), he's going under a really difficult time. hope he's getting over it and things are doing well for him. la lang. just can't stop thinking about it...wherever you are, stay strong...can't do anything but sigh...yeah...we'll always have tagaytay...hope it still makes you smile...
Posted at Wednesday, August 17, 2005 by mysticsoul
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Tuesday, April 26, 2005
welcome back! haven't visited this for months now. just got busy with my new account and my new life. i got transfered to cendant-lodging and man, i love the account. haven't hit the required stats yet but i'm doing fine, especially with my qa. ha-ha! puro 90+ na ko ngayon. that just proves na i'm not a dumb agent like what inphonic made me feel.
going back to my new entry's title, havin' a baby. yep, it sounds like a maternity stuff shop, i think sa glorietta ata yun. that is because i'm 2 months on the famly way. exciting nga e kaso hirap maglihi sobra daming cravings tapos konti ko naman kumain... lagi pa kong bed-ridden pag rest days ko. daig ko pa maysakit. kainis. la na ngang magkasyang pants sa kin e. OA nga pero totoo e. kaya ayan, bukod sa magastos na ko sa food e kailangan ko pang bumili ng mga drawstring pants. yoko nga mag-maternity dress. hirap mag-commute e. sana matatapos na tong lihi2 na to e. istorbo sa trabaho. sana lang di kasing tagal nung una na inabot ng 7 or 8 mos ata yun. OA talaga. naglilista na nga ko ng mga ninang e. gusto ko atang subukang magpa-baby shower kasi uso yun ngyon e. sa mga close friends lang namn. o sya, ngalay na ko. nagrereklamo na ata anak ko e.. til next time...
Posted at Tuesday, April 26, 2005 by mysticsoul
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Wednesday, January 19, 2005
it's been a while since i last logged in here. i became kinda busy with the abay stuff. so far, i've had 2 perfect scores and 1 set to 0. hopefully di na madagdagan pa yung 0. i wanna graduate na from here. i want to get back to my own station. lamig dito e.
anyway, sa wakas, i got over my dilemma. finally din, i've come to realize that "the worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to." why wait for someone who's not sure on how he really feels? besides, i should have known earlier that i was the only one who believes that there's a special connection between us. stupid me. i was actually living in dreams. buti na lang i woke up na. no need to worry coz i have my own family to love me as me. and i have somebody whom i thought i don't love anymore, who came back...after everything that has happened. siguro, mas maganda na lang na i'll stay with a person who really loves me more than anything, regardless of his imperfections. tutal, if i look for somebody else who'll turn out to be irresponsible and weak in the end, sayang na naman di ba? i'm so tired na of getting to know other guys tapos the relationship won't work din naman. i just have to accept my baby for what he is. i won't ask for anything he can't give. if i have to be the highest earner in the family, then so be it. at least, i'm secured emotionally. besides, he never kept me hanging. kung mahina diskarte nya, e di ako na lang. i have to learn how to love unconditionally. i may still love the guy i wished for, but if he's not meant to be, then so be it. at least now, i can say, i'm happy and complete, at last! thank God i still have my family intact. i'll make sure i'll make bawi to them for all the lost years. i just love them both...i wish we'll stay this way for life. thank God!
Posted at Wednesday, January 19, 2005 by mysticsoul
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Sunday, January 09, 2005
why do we have to be in a situation where u can't choose between the person u really love and the person who loves u? ano ba talaga ang mas matimbang o mas importante? i love somebody but i don't know where i stand. ni hindi ko nga alam if he really needs me coz he loves me or he loves me coz he needs me. we only meet kasi when something's troubling us. we find each other sane to talk to. di kaya yun lang talaga ang role namin sa isa't isa? maybe i'm exaggerating...or even if i tell him i'm not expecting anything in return, i still do. it's because the more i see him, the more i love him. when we meet, i'll never know when we'll see each other again. it's hard waiting for somebody whom u're not sure if he'll be urs or not. i know it's up to me if i continue to wait no matter how long it takes. even if that will cause me misery for the rest of my cursed life...
and here's somebody who never stopped loving me after all those years... i'm trying to get the feeling again kaso i don't feel anything. i tried opening our communication lines open, see each other often like it used to be, but weird thing is, blanko talaga ko. pero i always reply naman sa mga texts nya...minsan nga inaabangan ko pa e. i miss him...pero pag kasama ko na sya, parang ayoko syang kasama. i always say i've always wanted a family of my own...di kaya dapat ko lang ayusin kung anuman yung nasira para mabuo lang yung matagal ko nang gustong makamit? ewan ko... i don't even know if the old feeling will ever come back... i can see his effort in winning us back... he even tried having other relationships kaso a common friend told me na once he's into it, he'll quit after a week. the reason daw? he keeps on comparing them with me. that's really sweet and unbelievable coz meron pa palang taong ganun aside fr me. i keep comparing the guys i meet with the one i really love kasi e. mali e...like now...i just told him na maybe it's best not to see each other muna. he didn't reply. ayan, nakasakit na naman ata ako...ang sama ko talaga...
i don't wanna be unfair. don't want to hurt anybody with whatever it is that's bothering me. i just wanna go somewhere peace and quiet to think. i want to do some soul-searching. i just can't find my own self..and i don't know if it's even worth finding at all. i don't know if i've changed for the better or for the worse. i don't know if i wished for the right thing. sana i'll be contented with what i have and not ask for more. sana...
Posted at Sunday, January 09, 2005 by mysticsoul
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Tuesday, January 04, 2005
my first day of the week...i'm kinda down right now coz i woke up too early to review for my 2 preliminary exams which was postponed din naman pala. my prof's not here yet. dunno where the hell he is right now but good thing na rin coz i haven't finished reviewing pa e. dami kaya...it's like i'm taking law sa dami. but the weird thing is, i enjoy studying them. if i'll be given the chance to concentrate on my studies, siguro i'll be a dean's lister. kaso, i need to sleep a lot din kasi i can't concentrate pag puyat. sana lang i'll get a nice grades at the end of the sem. ganda na kasi ng nasimulan ko sa school e. i guess i just have to study harder. baba pa naman magbigay ng grades ni sir gungon...
anyway, nothing new about my personal life. first time ko masama sa smc (samahan ng mga malalamig ang christmas). lungkot pala...pero ok lang. bonding naman kami nung mga cousins ko pati si mama. cool nga kasi she allowed me na to smoke in front of her nung inuman na. matanda na daw ako e. well, at least, it came fr her na, di ba? pero di pa rin siguro ganun kadalas sa house. saya nga e. nilasing ako nung mga cousins ko. bad trip.
anyway, i have to review na uli muna. dito ko ofc, working as usual. basa2 muna ko ng notes. mahaba-haba pa talaga rereview-hin ko e. till next time...
Posted at Tuesday, January 04, 2005 by mysticsoul
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Friday, December 31, 2004
it's been quite a while since i wrote my last entry. i've been too busy with gigs, going out with my old friends, and work. i haven't had enough sleep since this month started that i'm craving for it like hell. sleep all day is what i want to do anytime. tapos, ngayon, new year nasa office kami while the rest the luckier creatures are on a drinking spree. kainis di ba? i feel like it's a premonition that we'll be working like dogs the whole year round. well, ok lang din as long as the pay will increase. i feel so terrible with the whole QA stuff. good thing some concerned employees from ps formed this union to help poor agents who try to do their best in satisfying the customers but just because of the stupid QA profile, nawala lahat yung mga achievements na un, well, at least para sa atin mismo di ba? what can we do e, bulok naman talaga yung client? hay nako, don't wana talk about that na...
new year na...that mean i'm one year older and hopefully wiser. so much for all the stupidity. bad trip nga kasi ang ganda ng concert sa labas tapos we have to work. ibig sabihin, isang taon na naman kaming magtatrabaho at makikipag-away sa mga customers. kainis talaga kasi i wasn't able to watch chito of parokya ni edgar. crush ko pa naman yun. ok lang. i'll just try to watch one of their shows minsan if i have the extra money and the time.
and the worst part of all, i am reviewing for my 2 major preliminary exams. kainis. ang hihirap pa man din. well, kasalanan ko naman kasi i prefered nto to take the exam last time kasi iwasn't that prepared for that. malay ko ba naman kasing aagahan ni sir di ba? alam ko talaga after christmas vacation pa e. ayun,naduwag ako bigla.
guess i gotta go. review muna uli ako. till next time.
ps: waaaaaaaaaaah! liit ng sinahod ko....
Posted at Friday, December 31, 2004 by mysticsoul
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Monday, December 20, 2004
waaaah! kahaapon ko lang nalaman na ngayon pala yung prelims sa prespectives on civilization. i really thought next year pa yun kaya sobrang lax ko lang. ayun! cramming ako, as in! omiGod! milagro na lang talaga to kung maipasa ko yun. grabe pa naman magpa-exam si sir gungon. tipong open notes na e, di mo pa din masagot. pero, bow ako dun. galing sobra. kaso, minsan, di na namin masakyan yung mga sinasabi nya e. pero ok lng. magaling pa din sya. haay...wish me luck na lang mamaya. tapos, direcho pa ko a gig ko sa rustan's kaya lagare talaga ko ngayon. tapos, direcho na ko sa ofc. la na kasing allocation for leave kagabi tsaka ngayon e. kya call-in ako kagabi, tapos malamang late ako mya. patay na naman ako kay odie. sorry tlaga...nagyon lang naman tong mga gigs na to kasi in season e. next year wala na to. sana she'll understand... sige...gotta go. i have to prepare formy doomsday...help me God...
Posted at Monday, December 20, 2004 by mysticsoul
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